I am blunt so when I describe myself to friends I say short, podgy, thinning hair.
This honesty makes other people recoil. Like my Barber when I say I am going bald.....pure horror on his face, as he asks me if I'd like my hair left very long on top. No thanks, I'm going bald, no point in hiding it.
I once put an honest description of myself on Adult Friend Finder and had zero replies in one year. So I deleted it. Sometimes being honest is problem, you have to lie a bit to get on in life. I wish it wasn't true but it is.
I found that out from all my failed job intervews.
I use handles to describe other people, for example there is Simon the Teacher, Simon the computer programmer, and Simon the juggler. I know 5 people with same first name so descriptions help stop confusion, but sometimes I have to say "that lazy brother of mine", or "idiot father", rather than swear and use their real name.....
This honesty makes other people recoil. Like my Barber when I say I am going bald.....pure horror on his face, as he asks me if I'd like my hair left very long on top. No thanks, I'm going bald, no point in hiding it.
I once put an honest description of myself on Adult Friend Finder and had zero replies in one year. So I deleted it. Sometimes being honest is problem, you have to lie a bit to get on in life. I wish it wasn't true but it is.
I found that out from all my failed job intervews.
I use handles to describe other people, for example there is Simon the Teacher, Simon the computer programmer, and Simon the juggler. I know 5 people with same first name so descriptions help stop confusion, but sometimes I have to say "that lazy brother of mine", or "idiot father", rather than swear and use their real name.....
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