Malathion

I feel ill.

Both SK & I dosed ourselves with Malathion lotion again last night. Its been a week since the first dose. Hopefully it will kill off the mite invasion which is scabies.

SK feels guilty about bringing them home from work, but not so guilty that she did any hoovering or housework. I am washing all the clothes (again) that have been worn once and left lying around (mostly hers) and then when 24hours have passed I get to treat myself to a shower and wash this stinking stuff off.

We chatted again about this second interview I am due for this week. I have told her, if I get the job it will mean she has to do half the housework. She has agreed, but I know how slothsome she can be about such things.

I love but wish I didn't have to nag her so much.

Why do I feel like I am her mother all the time?

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वेअर्य tiredness from curry?

SK went to work at 6.30 and I slept on until 10am।

I couldn't understand why I have been so sleepy the past few days.

Then SK said the reason. Anemia. She phoned me from work this morning and has been doing that a lot lately. She hates her workplace.

I have eaten so many veggie meals that I lack iron in my diet. I guess its time to start buying bacon and eating bacon sandwiches for breakfast.

I do all the cooking (I luv to cook) but frankly can't be bothered to cook 2 different meal types. Ergo last night was veggie curry (onions, baby sweetcorn, mange tout, brocolli, garlic, pataks curry sauce) with rice (rice, lemon dressing, parsley,) and garlic & corrander naan bread with lime pickle and garlic pickle.

I think I will cook meat meals when SK is working night shifts. I don't miss meat much, but I hate oversleeping for no reason.

SK loves the garlic pickle from Pataks. She reeked of garlic last night. I dread to think what others will say about her breath at work today ;-)

Hope you like the pic. It sums up how SK & myself met and fell in love ;-)

Early morning wake up call

Got a phone call from SK's work place at 7.30am
She agreed to work today but forgot about the extra shift.

She is so pissed off with that place but needs to stay there for a while longer.

Cat Visit

Tomorrow SK & I planned to visit my cat to see how he has settled in with my parents. He had to go because of his tapping on the bedroom window at 4am when we were sleeping.. He has some sort of attention problem. Hopefully living with my parents other cats will stop him feeling so lonely ;0)

I don't think we will visit him tomorrow. I don't want my parents to know about my job interview last thursday or that there is a planned 2nd interview next week. Frankly my parents comments to help will just jinx me, and my dads idea of helping is to wind me up about it and make me angry; So I'll skip visiting the cat until after my second interview.

I miss that cat.....

Friends reunited or Not ;-)

I was looking at FriendsReunited.co.uk.
I left it some months ago.
I deleted my profile when an Ex sent me a message asking lots of nosey questions about my relationship with SK.

Its been months since that happened and when I tried to rejoin I was told I can't because my profile was previously removed for being abusive. I was sure I had deleted it, but maybe it did get wiped by 'Those in charge', and I only thought I had wiped it in disgust.

I find it strange that my profile may have been classed as abusive. I used no swear words and filled EVERY section out as completely as I could, (unlike most others).
I did post a message to my ex on it saying 'thanks for getting in touch, hope everything works out for you' which was a lot less abusive than the cheating b*tch deserves.

Maybe just wiping my profile is enough to deny me access.

Who knows?

I am curious about a group of friends I lost touch with, I'd like to see if they updated their profiles, but I don't want to make up a mock profile just so I can look up my old school friends.....

I've got their addresses so I can send them Christmas cards.
Maybe I'll try to re-register next year ;-)

I know I am kidding myself and I would look at my Ex's profile even though she is nothing but trouble.....

Ever loved someone who was bad for you; Poison to your soul, but you still keep caring even after they broke your heart?????

Fickle Woman.....

After more than 6 months of talking about moving to Devon SK has said, "We don't have to move if you don't want to".

Originally the move was first discussed because of her dislike of London. She may have felt she was manipulating me, but truth is, life outside of London appeals to me. Every day I see fewer people on the streets whose first language is English. Everyday I see less and less white people living in my area. Every day I feel like a foreigner in my own country. I want to move to a place with clean air and people whose knowledge of European languages comes only from their holidays abroad.

I have told her that I want to move to Exeter even though she now says we don't have to.....

I have to say that at first I wondered if her wanting to return to Devon was a way of breaking up with me. She seemed surprized I was all for moving and said "But your Ex asked you to move to Manchester and you didn't want to?"

I explained to her that even though I am a boring olde fart who harps on about the past, the fact remains I would never move to Manchester, because my relationship with my Ex was a destructive one. I was convinent for her, and not someone she was 'in love' with, even though she liked me, and shared my bed, she never had deep feelings for me. I was used, and I knew it.

I know SK loves and NEEDS me, and even though I talk about past experiences, I would never want to return to my past. I want a future with SK and I hope that will be in Devon NOT London.....

Picnic in Park

There's a chill in the air. Leaves are falling and Sept 16th looks like the last time we will be picnicing this year.....

I've lost a lot of weigh, but will I ever loose that double chin?

Probably about as much chance as my hair growing back lol

Car Mechanic Disaster

One recently development was my parents putting their old car back on the road. It was taken off the road and put in storage for 2 years. It was a 22yr old BMW which had 2 careful owners. It was more reliable than their 5yr old BMW which has been problematic.

All it needed was a MOT check & service and it would be road worthy. Because it was over 20yrs old it was classed as a classic car and so tax free to run so long as you didn't exceed the milage limit per year, to be a tax free classic car.

I keep saying WAS.....

It caught fire in the garage while being serviced.The car was a burned out wreck by the time the firemen arrived.The garage admitted liablity but only want to pay the 'book value' of the car which is only a few hundred.

I have told mum to sue for a replacement car and compensation but the legal advice she has gotten so far is they are entitled to offer only the valued of the car. She could take them to court but that will cost money, and she has no confidence in courts since her experience of the Irish court system.....